Significant time ago I wrote this post on the blog of James Bilinkis (I recommend entering). Step truth long enough and I lost a little pace to write, for many reasons. A good way to pick up and have some continuity is starting over with something that I wrote:)

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Like James, I like a lot of the debate (though in my blog not discuss anyone). The most competitive people, or always want to win, you end up taking almost a sport to discuss or debate. Also not sure why, wherever it appears the opposite gender (women, I present, my name is Joaquin and I still operate ), and sometimes I lose when I'm winning end up throwing the ball out (half CONSCIOUS) to sleep around my house even.

So I'll give you the key to win always, but always in an argument, look that never fails, eh.

In discussing, when you are not strongly agree on a topic, we often act proposing our point of view that is supported in a lot of things (or arguments) that we are right or we are right. These arguments generally agree with what we think in general, and we are absolutely convinced that under the line things will turn out for good.

Here comes the part where we always lose, we are so convinced of our arguments, we never see as possible, as real, the alternative of our opponent. The key to ever win an argument is really thinking (to be honest at this point) that the other says is right, no matter what I say, our head has to be right and from there, see the world as possible with this new reality. This "exercise" we will really see the possibilities offered by this new world, let us see the arguments in our archrival action and whether or if we are to learn anything, because everything he knew before that conversation, I already knew je If I close on my past knowledge systematically in every conversation, learn something difficult.

This famous line of learning something new every day, and the truth is that it is difficult in routine open up possibilities to investigate known or felt about a subject. But an inevitable part of routine discussions sometimes, and see that they have good opportunities to learn everyday!

Seriously, this helps us to know much more the reality of our peers (here comes the bomb) and has helped me to understand women! (Well not quite, but now I understand a lot). So go to the mail, please click on forward and create a beautiful chain of mails to send to all your contacts, you say on the topic "How to understand women," so we can help more than one, haha. Lie, if you really do is ask them to help me with your views on this issue, as only cast the first stone, I want to see all possible realities on the subject.

Photo: Carterton

On the Web before we know, only creating content, two types of people, who knew programming a website or those who had enough money to pay someone to do them. So to find some information that will help us in search engines, we had to be lucky that someone knows about this issue and also have an idea how to make a website. Little by little, people who knew about many things, but I had no idea how to share, was having more tools to do so. With this style of tools, he was the leap of knowledge, communication and community.
Knowledge and communication (although this is very present in the post), if you want the chat the other day, so if I care about are the negative implications of the effects of community generated.
I've seen several times in the focus of the discussion, whether in social networks of contacts puts them as friends, followers, contacts or other name. That then begs the question of whether those listed are really friends or not. I think that put the name to put each one in your imagination knows where the relationship and gives up no where. At best, a social network enhances the creation of friends, let us see some common interests, which we will facilitate the identification with many more people, new groups created randomly.
Anyway, the point is that the social web allows me to open talks A LOT, meet people, but not everything is rosy. As someone as a friend adds, are also those we do not add us to erase or block us! Then we have the distance that a person, feeling rejected or did not appreciate us makes us very badly!
I will say this is highly debatable, but I think the richer a man feel, is the social wealth. The silver without social connotations no sense. Winning a football game is not valuable for absolutely anyone, no sense. Everything all at one time has a social purpose. Because we are social beings, but we would rock!
The web as a medium, has multiplied about 1000 times the communication possibilities to what was by traditional means. So to be connected with many people but, the chances of being "rejected" grows too, creating a social poverty in the user very hard (obviously depends on the value generated by the contact us). And while it's really nice to have so many friends, talk about many things, we must handle with extreme caution the negative effects.
I think being ignored, being a social being, you feel less than human, as your basic function generator of meaning is not being fulfilled. So we must be very careful with the image that show and we ended up generating. Any mail, twitter or word that is not answered, it has a much greater negative implications than previously thought. In the blogs is kind of weird, because there is still a practical tool that allows us to see if we respoden or not, we look to reenter or susbcribirnos by mail, which is a bit tedious.
I have not really a recommendation to minimize or cancel this effect generated, but it seems more important to keep this in mind. I think to a denial or rejection, we must admit we were not necessarily interesting in the interests of that person, and therefore we must offer something to make you more particular sense, or else pass it to who, if indicated. In turn I think you should answer as many emails as possible, and if we try to understand answer still not ready physically to answer everything that you send us, maybe in the future if, not a bad idea to start working in that
Well I want to hear your opinion, according to the situations experienced by everyone, they will be able to bring together a lot and maybe we can think of this topic.
Thank you very much.

Well I come to bring what for me was a kind of "solution". It was something that flourished internally, after a very tragic moment that helped me find some that I think we all (or at least I look).

It was a very ugly accident dies for the father of my best childhood friend and godfather to my brother, Gerald. I was touching 50, had besides a son of my old (Leo), a smaller daughter of 16 (Cynthia) and a little rambunctious 2 year (Uriel). My dad wakes me with the news and the truth is he did not understand anything, I went to that house where I spent most of my childhood, not knowing what to say, I had no words. When it was full of people and was surrounded by all my childhood memories. Then I realized that while it was very ugly what had happened, Gerardo can not be criticized anything, because he lived a great life, as lived in full time. I always felt good doing the things he did, such as your home, which reformed at least 500 times, with joy, each brick. When we were going on vacation does not stop a second, always happy, always cheerful, everything he did he liked!

After these thoughts, take the courage to go talk to the family and tell them the same thing I think. That although he is not more, left us all a recipe for how to be happy being full.

This reflection takes some weeks inside me that although I felt very bad about the physical absence, I felt rewarded for always seen as something bad, he could then leave such a good thing to help me much. I was overcoming the greatest obstacle to live life, which is the famous fear of death. It is for something to happen but when I pressed the button publish or before s and that most of my life fully lived and the people who know me know that too. Being happy and communicating happiness to others.

Now explain more specifically what I consider for completeness, I say that does not mean running to jump in parachute, or know the 7 wonders of the world. The fullness we can be quietly lying in our beds while sleeping or watching a video on youtube! If I sleep with full awareness that I really want to sleep and I will enjoy the pleasure of rest (many are lucky to have her hand to the person who said that they loved more than anything in the world and others all his bed to enjoy!) I assure you I feel much more full and happy, thinking that I lie, I'm going to sleep very little, I'll be tired the next day that I have 500,000 trouble. A person who live fully, has an answer for everything. If you think you go to sleep little longer and enjoy it acostate. If you enjoy your night and you know that you will feel full of all the things you do during the day (like going to work, the great bogeyman of all) I promise you will not to be tired, and if you follow so tired and all, I assure you the next time you sleep, you sleep more fully! If you think that the other day when you go to work, you'll have much trouble, I tell you that up to another day when you have to lift and you come across this problem, you can not do anything! In the case that if something can be done for, find the solution, such as putting together a strategy and then goes to sleep the full.

After death, I think one of the great Cuckoos life of most people (which is on the list of many of the criticisms at the time) is work. Because the work has to be almost number one on this list? (las cuales quizas antes desperdiciabamos y ahora ya aprendimos a aprovecharlas), despues entre comidas tenemos 3 hs mas, viaje promedio calculemos 2hs mas por dia y le sumamos las famosas 8hs de trabajo, nos da un total de 21hs . If 24 hours, sleep 8 (which perhaps before desperdiciabamos and now learned to take advantage), then we have 3 hours between meals more, travel more averaged 2 hrs per day and we add 8am famous work, gives us a total of 21hs. So far we would be 3 hours of freedom to do "whatever we want" and "be happy". Then we are smart, we view ( ), We can not spend every day 8am to what we think is the worst of the earth. And so I have to expect to work in google, or be a rock star because it is not the solution for anyone. Actually I've heard people with dream jobs for all, with a lot of money, not be happy doing what he does. If you are fully doing what they do, I promise that may be hammering a nail can bring happiness to win a grand slam. The great help to feel fulfilled doing anything is knowing that we maybe for a goal or something that gives us meaning. If I work 14 hours per day, for my daughter to be happy, but it turns out that my daughter is happy being with me makes no sense, this kind of thing is going to frustrate us. So if our true and absolute goal is to be with our daughter (I have children, obviously is an example) get a job from home where we can share with her. If our goal other than to see our family, is divided into other things, that our work makes sense to each of the things for which we do. Even a boy of 3 years, if we asked him know that makes no sense buy a Ferrari if your job because you hold a heart attack or not?

My recommendation is to seek happiness, but that is a major goal as if the long term. Instead every day looking for the tool or process to get there, which is fully reflected in everything we do.

Try to do this together, to help others. The easiest way to get a goal, hand in hand with the goalkeeper, is giving it to the next!. By helping the success of the next, we all win!

Well, I leave you, from now on fully enjoying every moment 100%. If they think makes sense and for many more it can be a "solution", I ask you to convey this idea, my idea is to help as many potential nipples and this I think we would do well at all.

In turn, I hope your ideas, rebuttals, his thoughts, to help each other, to enjoy more each time.

Thanks

Yes, the post looks almost like a book, but hey let's say you just need the formality of paper and note that they have read the essence of what I think not so many words that adorn and justify the use of leaves

When putting on a pole or a big goal (which encompasses the rest of my goals) I always had some doubt or dispute on the issue was something that was in my head, my heart, but could not pass with the words correct.

Siempre vi, que mi propia felicidad o plenitud, estaba muy relacionada a la felicidad o plenitud de los demás, entonces en cuanto yo pueda colaborar para que una persona se sienta mas feliz o plena (creo que para poseer esas dos características, también se debe estar tranquilo) mi grado de alegria, plenitud y demas se incrementará .

Durante mucho tiempo pensé que la solución era ganar mucho mucho dinero , ya que veo que la mayoría va corriendo detrás de la zanahoria sin parar. Entonces el darles la zanahoria, seria otorgarles muchísima tranquilidad, confort, seguridad y plenitud. Pero lo que me di cuenta, es que el dinero puede brindar tranquilidad, confort, seguridad, pero financiera! , el resto de problemas, quiebres o como se les quiera decir, persiste y el dinero puede actuar hasta como potenciador de problemas , si no se tiene claro lo que uno quiere.

Entonces mi objetivo era mejorar la calidad de vida de los demas.

El primer circulo a cubrir es la familia, luego amigos, despues personas las cuales sus puntos de vista me generan sentido y se alinean con el mio, y por último toda la comunidad.

Entonces:

• What is the quality of life: for me the quality of life, not the quality of financial life is not having A / C in all parts of your home, but people with better quality of life, are those them feel more full with their activities, their lifestyle, with its path and its road ahead.
• Like the better? Not necessarily money, I think that in some cases the solution must be that, but not the majority as it looks today. I think the solution is not to tell people to do is a mistake committed inadvertently. The right solution seems to help people overcome their own breaks, to define their own pole, ultimately to find fulfillment.

But another point that must be added to all this is the massive, if I can infer that a person positively, and there is a chance to do it in two, I prefer it in two. My contribution was that perhaps can not be the same degree, but perhaps the germ of institution doing the right things most people can then play it for me!

In short, the conclusion is DESIRE TO IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF LIFE AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE. Not a magic solution for everyone, but agree to the concerns of each.

You may wonder what this has to do with having a big company?, I think from a large organization can do many, as we increase our resources in every way to provide solutions. I think my country needs my help in particular ( I think the world is not happy) and the current policy does not seem the best way to solve things.

So with this statement beginning to take its first steps as is an athlete in the moments before a big leap.

I hope the cooperation of all this.

Thank you very much.

I am very happy to tell you about this new step in my projection that is IBM.

At the time of putting my goals, I determined that it was necessary to enable me to undertake professional as possible, or want to improve my skills to the fullest. Train and start some mini projects require a minimum even funding, which needed a job a little more "formal", but there was another condition at the time of going to somewhere (because working in a "normal" goes a little find the entrepreneurial mindset of many) that was added when or if something in my toolbox.

My new job was to join important knowledge for my future and in that sense IBM was a great opportunity that I opened for the following reasons:

1. It's an ultra successful company, huge (too big) so I can see from the kidney organization, learning from the good things and detecting those anomalies to improve.
2. I went into Software Distribution (now better tell them that is) that is particularly concerned with providing services (a form of outsourcing) worldwide, preferably those parts of the world where there is a major economic difference, both in income, as in the exchange rate.
3. Never work in an office or with systems people thus far did not know the concerns "general" given in such places and in business, I work best with the team, or what I have as a priority.
4. The sector is responsible for the great Rodo Nasif (His blog is New Leadership ) which is great for seeing in practice, those practices (pun intended) that I preach in the future and start learning with a person with whom tune quite turn and admire.

Particularly my position is a specialist in Software Distribution, in a nutshell there are large companies, who need all their machines any software, update, patch, or a database, then we take care to make the distribution of the "package" in all machines that the client requested.

I find it very interesting that industry and discover things that come under the heading "I have no idea that there are" and helps me to think new services possible. I am convinced that the country should export as many services as possible, as we like food, because the costs of living with the First World are very large and separate tip the balance of trade in an incredible way. I know it sounds easy, but it is so difficult, although I prefer to develop better in another post.

I hope to be very useful to the company and my industry, and in turn, learn as much as possible, I made ​​a sponge, absorbing everything I can.

Greetings!

In several examples, such as Kodak or other large corporations that go bankrupt or lose a lot of ground in your business, we often conclude that the problem is that they were not ready, they could not or would not see the change. Now I asked myself if I am ready as an organization to make all changes necessary for success, because as a human being willing to change aspects not being carried me down the road than I expected or understood as successful?

This is a shot a little post of my friend William Moralez called "My only venture: My Life" added to that seen in classes CETEAN about companies that did not have the vision necessary to make the necessary changes or worse, those they could make the change but did not, perhaps not prosper or ruin your present (currently being leader, but with great intrigue that position will be occupied in the future) or many times for not having "eggs "necessary to do and stay in your comfort zone.

I think Juan Carlos , once told of Tiger Woods (not the detail, but very general history), where it really proved to be the number one, not only to have the aptitude for the sport, but to have a mind capable of producing the necessary changes and have the 2 golf balls to take it and implement it.

The fact is that Tiger in a moment of his career, and being the undisputed number 1, note that the mode of play that had at that time, gave him a pain in the future it would definitely sidelined, rather than mostly a matter of attitude, fundamental to any golfer. Woods realized that the solution to this problem was to grab your instrument playing in a completely different, compared to us can be like trying to learn to write with your other hand. The thing that did change the golfer, terribly low level, and diambulo for a long time out of number one which had already demonstrated the necessary skills. The point is that as we all know, today is number 1 again Tiger and has already passed quite what happened.

In my particular case, many times I saw skills and attitudes of their own, they were not the best for what I was intending to do, by the fact that "good all these things that are on the surface I can change, but my way of being no "(?), or" I can improve, but not change my nature, "(??). Today I realized that to be committed to a vision, you must first engage with oneself and with the possibility of change, to things that today we can bring happiness, let alone those we know are wrong, but still doing.

The question is am I willing to make a change that may not want to accept, I do not want to see, to alter my "comfort" today? SI. Do I even need to be left-handed!

! That if Boca fan ever! lol

Entrepreneur born or made? A question more than usual lately. I now ask you, is enterprising skills or attitude? or to succeed with a emprendemiento, of which we shall have more in the balance?

CQC Looking for a couple of weeks, I asked people from the rock environment, if you were a rock star for attitude or aptitude. I must say that I believe are needed both, and what's more, we can see how some people possess both (Charly Garcia, Maradona for example), but you can usually see if fitness prevails (say Cristian Castro, once my ex took me to see, has an incredible voice, but not asked to pitch) or attitude ( Sandro is the Argentine example, that without a great voice, an achievement to be number one in Latin America with an overbearing attitude).

From my point of view, take the way we know, in which one person, two or a small group aims to create something from nothing, a great company, great product, or something that the rest is inaccessible, or involves a fee if more attitude than aptitude. Because to undertake large-scale need not be a specialist in the subjects concerning the venture, or be a great economist (even without knowing it is a business plan could be achieved if investing millions) . What is needed is punchy , push, energy, dissatisfaction with the existing, and passion to see something which does not exist or does not seem possible and convince others that this is the best thing to happen.

Someone may have skills to do a startup, because it was at a college where they really formed with everything you need and maybe his father was an entrepreneur, giving all his advice, but I tell you to do something really amazing must have entrepreneurial attitude the heart. My in particular is the only thing that gives me a happiness that is almost similar to that felt with love, more than once. That feeling in the chest is unique and that this entrepreneurial attitude or future entrepreneur by reading this, you will be agree with me.

I believe that entrepreneurship is that the key is to awaken these attitudes, or those who already have these attitudes, it has to work more to increase their skills. But what I consider fundamental to awaken these attitudes is to show that you can. That one of the missions and mine blog. Thank you very much for sharing this with me at all.

I leave an aggregate via @ alguiendeperico , the truth in a phrase that summed up what quico around the post. Thanks

The barrier to fitness is never someone with attitude

This is something I learned some time ago and stayed in a talk that inadvertently listed as "not to be singing the tango". Everyday, meet someone, regardless if it's too little or not you see, and to make the famous question How is it going?, The common response is automatic and "all good" but we know that in a matter of seconds, some of the two will recite the bad day you had, so it takes the collective, or the amount of people that were in the subway at rush hour, passed as a survivor of a problem, when we are talking about something quite normal and everyday.

Why we do it? complain because it became a habit and you compete to have more bad luck. One of the places where it is reflected in the web 2.0, as we this "listening" all the time, seeing as we are now, giving us instead to constantly review and accidentally with all that information is created profile as is a person, seeing that it transmits.

The most serious, is not an argument that it is normal to tilde problem, but the bad image that conveys such a person. We are not aware, but one day the bus did not stop, another day and ask us broke Tv , so on until the person in front of us think "This is a problematic" or "This is living with Quilombo" or "Wow, better still long, because it always brings bad wave tragedy and others." As entrepreneurs and ordinary people, not the image we want to give anything a bad story that would accidentally buy my friend William, and we think that really goes wrong and we have the right to complain to whoever we meet, or at the place where you can leave an expression of my state.

So reader / friend of mine, as you are're not to be singing the tango, it must be given to later in life, if something bad happened to you, think of the responsibility that you got on it and how to improve it. Unfortunately as we embedded this habit, is an exercise that we do to stop this, but has not condufir to say all the time "I'm great" "that great day" because it would pass for fools to pass first and then some credible, which we do not want to happen.

If you believe that somehow YOU CAN enrich this debate please please do it!, I think everyone can do, so are invited to bring their own.

In a very good blog about personal productivity called the basket , I found the following post which talks about "the zone ". The same concerns when we get to be in those moments where conseguis absolute concentration on what you're doing, with the consequence of losing track of time completely.

In the post to give some tips on things to do to stay long in the area. Like being on a subject I know, but where there is always something to learn, you must also be challenging, we should encourage us to do and have a fast reaction (The times I remember being in the area when I was in charge of making the windows of technology, Pasban hours and hours, lost sales, but I was excited very much and kept me with full attention to what he was doing, the quick response I had was every two minutes to see if it was running or not)

As entrepreneurs (not necessarily people who have your business, but people with attitudes to change things), but it is important to leave the comfort zone , the most important thing that our entrepreneurial activity in the area. When we talk about the passion we must do things, focus, energy and other attributes, we refer to many of the things we found in this area.

Another important fact to know that you can, think that there is the possibility of achieving my goal more difficult it may seem. The way to accomplish something impossible or not known, first thinking it is possible and there, after checking which way to take us to our destination and so work in our step by step, fully focused.

Something very important is to get away from bad areas, like the criticism. It is a normal attitude, which inadvertently fall by the people around us. Where no real reason everything is wrong, everyone is complaining and complaining transmits culture. Ex: There's this underground that is filled! If it is a crap, they have to fix it! Because he's always bad! It travels like cows! Where perhaps it is 6 pm and a subway is coming less than 3 minutes each, for 90 cents! Another example is in the more traditional works: This work is a m ...., Underpaid, are a lot of hours, they ask you anything, in such other place x charge more. But no one says how to improve things, or do something to improve it, only complain as martyrs, on top of you where you work x who charges more, but installed another critical area where charge more but have more problems and head does not value what they do ( you told pumpkin? ). L or important is to make an important and significant act to cut it, but if you do not succeed ANDAT!, Because most do not want it going to affect you.

In closing I want to take this phrase from Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi "What's interesting is that people who were doing something active and concentrated felt happier than people who watch TV without thinking."

In this kind of chronic, I wanted to tell a new step I took (very important) which is registered in the CETEAN . The same is responsible for training entrepreneurs for the global age (management 2.0).

The key concepts are:

• Learning to see and experience the world in a very different perspective. Trying to see the possibility of finding people's concerns, in order to innovate.
• Appropriating Tools 2.0 (How well explained Johann Ferdinand ), but not just as tools but as the "ideology" that is advancing in the world on these applications.
• Develop entrepreneurial skills and practices related to the way we view the world mentioned in the above.

In educational concept is very difficult to find a program as updated and as capable teachers. See the current reality which comes so clearly, I assure you it is not easy to find.

I appreciate the confidence of Juan Carlos and the good vibes of all partners. It is well to say, is a great group. I go very very happy in each class, cool, to learn new things and open-mindedness produced (Do not recommend the system of Andres Piccini ).

Part RSB 's post comes to the IUEAN . I superimposed this activity is a matter of a career grade in the same institutions and I do not want to change the commission, claiming that the distribution of courses is done and if you put me on Fridays because that is where there is vacant. Also hoping to find a solution.

That if I do not miss the CETEAN or crazy.