Significant time ago, I wrote this post on the blog Bilinkis Santiago (I recommend you enter). Spend enough time and truth I lost my rhythm a little writing, for many reasons. A good way to pick up and have some continuity is starting over with something that I wrote:)

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Like James, I like a lot of discussion (even though in my blog does not discuss anyone.) The most competitive people, or who always want to win, I end up taking almost as a sport to discuss or debate. Also I do not know why, wherever it appears the opposite gender (women, I do not mind, my name is Joaquin and I still operate ), I lose and sometimes when I'm finished throwing the ball to win out (average apropósito) to sleeping around my house even.

So I'll give you the key to win always, but always in an argument, look that never fails, eh.

In discussing at the time of not being strongly agree on a topic, usually intervene by offering our point of view that is supported in a lot of things (or arguments) that we are right or we are right. These arguments usually agree with what we think in general, and we are absolutely convinced that under that line things are going to go out well.

Here comes the part where we always lose, we are so convinced of our arguments, we never see as possible, as real, the alternative of our opponent. The key to winning an argument is always really think (be honest at this point) that the other says is right, no matter what I say, our head has to be right and from there, see the world as possible with this new reality. This "exercise" will let us actually see the potential of this new world, let us see the arguments in the action of our archrival and whether or if we are to learn something, because everything he knew before that conversation, I already knew je If I close on my past knowledge systematically in every conversation, learn something difficult.

This famous phrase to learn something new every day, and the truth is that it is difficult in routine open possibilities of knowledge or sit on a topic to investigate. But something inevitable in routine discussions sometimes and see that they have good opportunities to learn everyday!

Seriously speaking, this helps us to know much more the reality of our peers (here comes the bomb) and has helped me to understand women (well not so much, but now understand enough). So go to the mail, please click on forward and create a nice chain mails to send to all your contacts, read on the topic "How to understand women" so we can help more than one, haha. Lies, if you really do is ask them to help me with their views on this issue, as only cast the first stone, now I want to see all possible realities on the subject.

Photo: Carterton

On the web before we know it, just creating content, two types of people, who knew how to program a website or those who had enough money to pay someone to do them. So to find some information that help us in search engines, we had to be lucky that someone knows about this issue and also have an idea how to make a web. But little by little, people who knew about many things, but I had no idea how to share, was having more tools to do so. With this style of tools, he was the quantum leap of knowledge, communication and community.
Knowledge and communication (although this is very present in the post), if you want the chat the other day, so if I worry about are the negative implications of the effects of community generated.
I've seen several times in the focus of the discussion, if the social networks of contacts are started as friends, followers, contacts or other name. That then leads to the question of whether listed are really my friends or not. I think that put the name to put each one in his imagination knows where to give the relationship and where not. At most social networking power to create friends, it lets us see some common interests, which we will facilitate the identification with many more people, new groups created randomly.
Anyway, the point is that the social web allows me to open HUGE conversations, meeting people, but not everything is rosy. As someone adds us as a friend, there are those that we do not add us to erase or block us! So the distance we have with one person, feeling rejected or that we do not value us very badly!
I will say this is very debatable, but I think what makes you richer a man is social wealth. Silver unbiased social, makes no sense. Winning a football game that is not valuable to no one, makes no sense. Everything all at one time is a social purpose. We are social beings, but we would rock!
The web as a medium, has increased about 1000 times the communication possibilities to what was by traditional means. So when connected with a lot more people, the chances of being "rejected" also grow, creating a social poverty in the user very hard (obviously depends on the value that will generate the contact). Y si bien es muy lindo tener tantos amigos, hablar de tantas cosas, debemos manejar con extrema cautela los efectos negativos causados.
Creo que el ser ignorado, al ser un ser social, te hace sentir menos humano , ya que tu función basica, generadora de sentido no se esta cumpliendo. Asi que debemos tener mucho cuidado, con la imagen que mostramos y que terminamos generando. Cualquier mail, twitt o palabra que no sea contestada, tiene una implicancia negativa mucho mas grande de lo pensado. En los blogs es medio raro, porque todavia no hay una herramienta practica que nos permita ver si nos respoden o no, debemos entrar nuevamente a fijarnos, o susbcribirnos por mail, lo cual es un poco tedioso.
Realmente no tengo una recomendación para minimizar o anular este efecto generado, pero me parece mas que importante tenerlo presente. Creo que ante una negativa o rechazo, debemos admitir que no fuimos lo necesariamente interesante segun los interesas de esa persona, por ende o debemos ofrecerle algo que le genere mayor sentido particularmente, o sino transmitirlo a quien si sea indicado . A su vez creo que hay que responder la mayor cantidad de mails posibles, y si no nos responden tratar de entender que todavia no estamos preparados fisicamente para responder todo lo que nos mande, quizas en el futuro si, no seria mala idea empezar a trabajar en eso
Bueno quiero escuchar su opinión, según las situaciones vividas por cada uno, se que van a poder aportar mucho y quizas podamos juntos pensar este tema.
Thank you very much.

Bueno les vengo a traer lo que para mi fue una especie de “solución” . Fue algo que floreció internamente, luego de un momento bastante trágico , que me ayudo a encontrar un poco aquello que creo todos buscamos (o por lo menos yo busco).

Fue un momento muy feo, por un accidente laboral fallece el padre de mi mejor amigo de la infancia y padrino de mi hermano, Gerardo . Estaba rozando los 50 años, tenia aparte de un hijo de mi edad (Leo), una hija mas chica de 16 (Cintia) y un pequeño revoltoso de 2 años (Uriel). Mi viejo me despierta con la noticia y la verdad es que no entendia nada, fui a esa casa donde pase casi toda mi infancia, sin saber que decir, no tenia palabras. Cuando llegue, estaba lleno de gente y estaba rodeado de todos mis recuerdos de la infancia. Then I realized that while it was very ugly what had happened, Gerardo nothing can not be criticized because he lived a great life and lived it fully constantly. I always felt good doing the things he did, such as your house, which the reformed 500 times at least, with joy, each brick. Cuando ibamos de vacaciones no paraba un segundo, siempre contento, siempre alegre, todo lo que hacia le gustaba!

Despues de estos pensamientos, tome el coraje de ir a hablar con la familia y decirles esto mismo que pienso. Que si bien el no está más, el nos dejó a todos la receta de como ser feliz siendo pleno.

This reflection took a few weeks inside me that although I felt very bad about the physical absence, I felt rewarded to see as always wrong, then exit could something so good to help me much. I was overcoming the biggest obstacle to live life, which is the famous fear of death. It is for me to spend some more when I pressed the publish button, or before, s and that most of my life lived in fullness and the people who know me know that too. Being happy and bring joy to others.

Now more time explaining what I believe in full, I say that does not mean rushing to jump in parachute, nor know the seven wonders of the world. The fullness we can have while lying quietly in our beds sleeping or watching a video of youtube! If I go to bed with full awareness that I really want to lie down and I'll enjoy the pleasure of relaxation (many are lucky to have her hand to the person who told her she loved more than anything in the world and others all his bed to enjoy!) I assure you I feel much more full and happy, thinking that I sleep, I sleep very little, I'll be tired that day I have other problems 500 000. A person live in fullness, have an answer for that. If you feel that you are getting little sleep, acostate now and enjoy it. If you enjoy your night and you know you will feel full all the things you do during the day (like going to work, the great bogeyman of all) I promise you will not to be tired, and if you keep so tired and everything, I assure you that the next time you go to bed, you'll sleep more fully! If you think that the other day when you go to work, you will have many problems, I tell you that until another day when you have to lift and that you come across that problem, you can not do anything! In the case that if something can be done for, I found the solution, such as craft a strategy and then goes to sleep fully.

After death, I think one of the great bogeyman of the lives of most people (which is on the list of many of the criticisms at the time) is work. Because the work has to be almost number one in this list? (las cuales quizas antes desperdiciabamos y ahora ya aprendimos a aprovecharlas), despues entre comidas tenemos 3 hs mas, viaje promedio calculemos 2hs mas por dia y le sumamos las famosas 8hs de trabajo, nos da un total de 21hs . If 24 hours, sleep eight (which perhaps before desperdiciabamos and now learned to use them), then have three hours between meals but, more 2hs calculate average travel per day and we add the famous work 8am gives us a total of 21hs. So far we would have 3 hours of freedom to do "whatever we want" and "being happy." Then we are smart, we view ( ), We can not spend every day 8am to what we think is the worst of the earth. And so I have to expect to work in google, or be rock star, because it is not the solution for anyone. The truth is I've heard people with dream jobs for all, with lots of money, not being happy doing what he does. If you are full doing what they do, I promise that may be driving a nail with the happiness it can bring a win grand slam. The great help to feel full doing anything, is knowing that we maybe by a goal or something that gives us meaning. If I work 14 hours per day, for my daughter to be happy, but turns out that my daughter is happy being with me makes no sense, this kind of thing is going to frustrate. So if our aim is true and complete to be with our daughter (I have kids, obviously, is an example) get a job from home where we can share with her. If our objective than to see our family, shares of other things, that our work makes sense to each of the things which we do them. Up to a baby of three years, if you ask you know it makes no sense to buy a Ferrari if your job because you hold a heart attack or not?

My recommendation is to seek happiness, but that is the main objective as if the long term. Instead every day looking for the tool or process to get there, it feels right in everything we do.

Try to do this together, to help others. The easiest way to make a goal, hand in hand with the archer, is giving it to the next door!. By helping the success of the next door, we all win!

Well, I leave, from now on fully enjoying every moment 100%. If they think that makes sense and for many more it may be a "solution", I ask you to convey this idea, my idea is to help as many potential Person and this I think we would do well to everyone.

In turn, I hope their ideas, their rebuttals, their thoughts, to help each other, to enjoy more each time.

Thanks

Yes, the post seems almost a book, but well say you only need the formality of the paper and note that they have read the essence of what I think without so many words that decorate and justify the use of leaves

At the time of putting on a shirt or a big goal (which encompasses the rest of my goals) I always had some doubt or dispute on the issue was something that was in my head, my heart, but could not pass it with words correct.

Whenever I saw that my own happiness or fulfillment, was closely related to happiness or fulfillment of the other, then as soon as I can together make a person feel happier or full (I think to have these two features, you must also be quiet), my degree of happiness, fulfillment, and others will increase.

For a long time I thought the solution was to make a lot a lot of money, since I see that most go running after the carrot without stopping. Then give them the carrot, it would give them a lot of peace, comfort, security and fulfillment. But what I realized is that money can provide reassurance, comfort, security, but financial!, Other problems, breaks or they want to say, persists and even money can act as an enhancer of problems, unless it's clear what you want.

So my goal was to improve the quality of life of others.

The inner circle to cover the family, then friends, after which people make their views felt I generate and align with mine, and finally the whole community.

Then:

• What is the quality of life: for me the quality of life, not the quality of financial life, you do not have A / C in all parts of your house, but people with better quality of life, are those them feel more full with their activities with their lifestyle, with its path and its road ahead.
• How best? Not necessarily with money, I think in some cases the solution must be that, not the majority as it appears today. I think the solution is not to say that people do is a mistake committed inadvertently. The right solution seems to help people overcome their own breaks, to define its own pole, ultimately find their fulfillment.

But another point that must be added to this is the massive, if I can infer that a person positively, and there is a chance to do it in two, I prefer to be in two. Is that maybe my contribution can not be the same grade, but perhaps establishing the germ of doing good things in more people who can then play it for me!

In short, the conclusion is DESIRE TO IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF LIFE OF THE MAYOR many people as possible. Not with a magic solution for everyone, but agree with the concerns of each.

You may wonder what this has to do with having a large business?, I think from a large organization can do many, as we increase our resources in every way to provide solutions. I think my country needs my help in particular ( I think the world is not happy) and the current policy does not seem the best way to fix things.

So with this statement beginning to take its first steps as is an athlete in the moments before a big leap.

I hope the collaboration of all this.

Thank you very much.

I am very happy to tell you about this new step in my projection that is IBM.

At the time to put my goals, I decided it was necessary to enable me to take as professional as possible, or want to improve my skills to the fullest. Mini train and start some projects require even a minimum funding, which needed a job a little more "formal", but there was another condition at the time of going to some place (and working at a "normal" is a bit discover the entrepreneurial mindset of many) that was added when or if something in my toolbox.

My new job was to join important knowledge for my future and in that sense IBM was a great opportunity that I opened for the following reasons:

1. It is an ultra successful business, big (too big) so I can see from the kidney organization, learning from the good things and detecting those anomalies to improve.
2. Software distribution I (now better tell them that is) that is particularly concerned with providing services (a kind of outsourcing) to everyone, especially those of parts of the world where there is an important economic difference, both in income, as in the exchange rate.
3. Never work in offices or systems people thus far did not know the concerns "general" given in such places and in business, I work best with the team, or what I have as a priority.
4. The sector manager is the great Rodo Nasif (His blog is New Leadership ) which is great to see in practice, those practices (forgive the redundancy) I want to preach in the future and start learning with a person with whom tune enough turn and admire.

Particularly my post is a specialist in Software Distribution, in a nutshell is big business, they need all their machines in some software, update, patch or any database, then do we handle the distribution of the "package" in all machines that the client requested.

I find it very interesting the industry and I find things that fall under the heading "I have no idea that there are" and helps me to think new services possible. I am convinced that the country should export more services possible, as we do as food, since the costs of living with the first world are very large and separate tip the trade balance in an incredible way. I know it sounds easy, but it is so difficult, but I prefer to develop better in another post.

I hope to be very useful to the company and my industry, and in turn, learn as large as possible, I made a sponge, I absorb everything.

Greetings!

In several examples, such as Kodak or other large corporations that go bankrupt or lose much ground in your business, we often conclude that the problem is that they were not ready, they could not or would not see the change. Now I'm rethinking whether I am ready as an organization to make any changes needed for success, because as a human being willing to change aspects that are carrying me down the road than I expected or understood as successful?

This was shot a little over a post of my friend William Moralez called "My only venture: My Life" added to that seen in classes CETEAN about companies that did not have the vision necessary to give the necessary changes, or worse, those they could make the change but did not, perhaps not to ruin your present prosper or (currently being leader, but with great intrigue that position is going to occupy in the future) or many times for not having "balls "needed to do and stay in your comfort zone.

I think Juan Carlos , once was the case of Tiger Woods (no detail, but very general in history), where it really proved to be the number one, not only to have the aptitude for the sport, but to have a mind capable of producing the necessary changes and have the two golf balls to take it and implement it.

The fact is that Tiger in a moment of his career, and being the undisputed number 1, note that the mode of play that had at that time, gave him a pain in the future I would definitely sidelined, but that all a question of attitude, some fundamentalists in a golfer. Woods realized that the solution to that problem, grab your instrument was playing in a completely different, compared to us, you can be like trying to learn to write with your other hand. The thing that the golfer did change, terribly low level, and diambulo for a long time out of number one for which she had shown the necessary skills. The question is that as we all know, today Tiger is number one again and has already passed quite what happened.

In my particular case, often saw skills or attitudes themselves, which were not the best for what I was intending to do, by the fact that "good all these things that are on the surface I can change, but my way no "(?), or" I can improve, but not change my nature, "(??). Today I realized that to be committed to one vision, one must first engage with oneself and with the possibility of change, to things that today we can bring happiness, let alone those that we know are wrong, but we continue.

The question is am I willing to make a change that might not want to accept, I will not see that alters my "comfort" today? SI. Do I even need to be left-handed!

! That if, Boca ever! jajaja

Entrepreneur born or made? A question more than usual lately. I now ask you, is for fitness entrepreneur or attitude? or to succeed with a emprendemiento, of which we must have more in the balance?

CQC Looking for a couple of weeks, they asked people in the rock environment, if you were a rock star for attitude or aptitude. I must say that I believe are needed both, and more, we can see how some people possess both (Charly Garcia, Maradona for example), but you can usually see if predominates skills (ie Cristian Castro, once my ex took me to see, has an incredible voice, but not asked to pitch) or attitude ( The Argentine example is Sandro, that without a great voice, an achievement to be number one in Latin America, with an overwhelming attitude).

From my point of view, take the way we know it, in which one person, two or a small group, it is proposed to generate something from nothing, a great company, great product, or something that the rest is inaccessible, if it involves a fee or attitude over aptitude. Because for large-scale undertaking is not necessary to be an expert in the subject matter referred to the venture, nor be a great economist (even without knowing it is a business plan to attract investment can reach millions) . What is needed is punchy , drive, energy, dissatisfaction over the existing, and passion to see something which does not exist or does not seem possible and convince others that this is the best thing to happen.

Someone may have the skills to do a startup, because it was at a college where I trained really everything you need and maybe his father was an entrepreneur, giving all his advice, but I tell you to do something really amazing must have entrepreneurial attitude heart. For me in particular is the only thing that gives me a happiness that is almost similar to that felt with love more than once. That feeling in the chest is unique and that this entrepreneurial attitude or future entrepreneur by reading this, will be agree with me.

I believe that entrepreneurship is that the key is to awaken these attitudes, or those who already have these attitudes, just has to work to increase their skills. But the main thing that I consider to awaken these attitudes is showing that you can. This truly one of the missions and blog. Thank you very much for sharing this with me at all.

I leave an aggregate via @ alguiendeperico , the truth that in a phrase that summed up what quic around the post. Thanks

Fitness is never lock for someone with an attitude

This is something I learned a while ago and am in a conversation inadvertently listed as "do not have to sing the tango." It is everyday, meet someone, regardless of whether much or little you do not see him, and that makes the famous question: How are you?, Common and automatic response is "all good" but we know that in a matter of seconds, some of the two will recite the bad day you had, so I take the collective, or the amount of people who were on the subway at rush hour, transmitted as a victim of a problem when we are talking about something absolutely normal and daily.

Why we do it? why complain and it became a habit and a competition of who has more bad luck. One of the places where more than is reflected in Web 2.0, because we is "listening" all the time, seeing as we are now, giving us instead to think constantly, and without wishing with all that information is created as the profile is a person, seeing it conveys.

The most serious, is not an argument that the tilde normal problems, but the bad image that conveys a person so. We do not realize, but one day the bus did not stop, one day ask us and broke Tv , so on until the person in front thinking "This is a problematic" or "This is living with quilombos" or "Wow, better still long, because this always brings bad vibes, tragedy and others." As entrepreneurs and ordinary people, not the image we want to give anything, it's a bad story that would inadvertently bought my friend Guillermo, and we think that really goes wrong and we have the right to complain to whoever we meet, or in every place where you can leave an expression of my state.

So reader / friend of mine, you are as you are not there to sing the tango, offer for later in life, if something bad happened to you, think about the responsibility that you got on it and improve it. Unfortunately as we embedded this habit, is an exercise we must do to end this, but it's not to say condufir all the time "I'm good" "that great day" because it would pass for fools to pass first and then almost credible, which does not want to happen.

If you think that somehow Podes enrich this debate please do so!, I think everyone can do it, so are invited to bring their own.

In a very good blog on personal productivity called The Basket , I found the following post which talks about "the zone . " The same refers to when we get to be in those moments where conseguis absolute concentration on what you are doing, with the consequence of losing track of time completely.

In the post that gives several tips on things to do to stay long in the area. Like being in a subject I know, but where there is always something to learn, it must also be challenging, we should encourage us to do and should have a rapid reaction (The times I remember being in the area is when I charge to make the windows of technology, PASB for hours, lost sales, but I enjoy a lot and kept me with full attention to what he was doing, the rapid reaction I had was every two minutes to see if it was running good or not)

As entrepreneurs (not necessarily people who have their business, but people with attitudes to change things), but it is important to leave the comfort zone , the most important thing that our entrepreneurial activity in the area. When we speak of the passion which we do things, focus, energy and other attributes, we refer to many things we find in this area.

Another important fact is knowing that you can, think that there is a possibility to achieve my goal as difficult as it seems. The way to do something impossible or not known, first thinking that it is possible and there, then checking what course to take us to our destination and thus work in our step by step, totally focused.

Something very important is to get away from bad areas, like the criticism. It is a normal attitude, which accidentally fall down the people around us. Where no real reason everything is wrong, they all complain and transmitting the culture of complaint. Ex: There is this underground that is filled! If it is a crap, they have to fix it! Because he's so bad ever! It travels like cows! Where perhaps it is 6 pm and the subway is coming less than three minutes each, for 90 cents! Another example is in the more traditional works: This paper is a m ...., Underpaid, are a lot of hours, they ask for anything, so x becomes more elsewhere. But no one says how to improve things, or do something to improve it, just complain as martyrs, to top it going to where he works x charged more, but there is installed another critical area, which charge more but have more problem and the chief does not value what they do ( you tell squash? ). L or important is to make an important and significant act to cut that, but if you do not succeed ANDAT!, Because you do not want but it will affect.

Finally I take this phrase from Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi "What is interesting is that the people who were doing something so actively and felt happier than people watching TV without thinking."

In this kind of chronic, wanted a new step I took (very important) which is the entry in the CETEAN . The same is responsible for training entrepreneurs for the global era (management 2.0).

The key concepts are:

• Learning to see and experience the world in a very different perspective. Trying to see the possibility to find the concerns of the people, in order to innovate.
• Appropriate Tools 2.0 (How well explained Fernando Johann ), but not just as tools, but as the "ideology" that is moving in the world on these applications.
• Developing entrepreneurial skills and practices related to the way you view the world mentioned in the preceding paragraphs.

In educational concept is very difficult to find a program as updated and as capable teachers. View the current reality and which comes so clearly, I assure you it is not easy to find.

I appreciate the confidence of Juan Carlos and the good mood of the comrades. Not others say, is a great group. I go very very happy for each class, cool, new things to learn and open-mindedness produced (do not recommend the system of Andres Piccini ).

Part RSB 's post comes to the IUEAN . I overlaid this activity with a subject in one grade race course in the same institutions and I do not want to change the commission, arguing that the distribution of courses is already done and if I was assigned on Friday is because it is where I had vacancies. Also I hope to find a solution.

That if, not wanting CETEAN crazy.