Live fully
2009 February 1 2009
Well I come to bring what for me was a kind of "solution". It was something that flourished internally, after a very tragic moment that helped me find some that I think we all (or at least I look).
It was a very ugly accident dies for the father of my best childhood friend and godfather to my brother, Gerald. I was touching 50, had besides a son of my old (Leo), a smaller daughter 16 (Cynthia) and a little rambunctious 2 year (Uriel). My dad wakes me with the news and the truth is he did not understand anything, I went to that house where I spent most of my childhood, not knowing what to say, I had no words. When it was full of people and was surrounded by all my childhood memories. Then I realized that while it was very ugly what had happened, Gerardo can not be criticized anything, because he lived a great life, as lived in full time. I always felt good doing the things he did, such as your home, which reformed at least 500 times, with joy, each brick. When we were going on vacation does not stop a second, always happy, always cheerful, everything he did he liked!
After these thoughts, take the courage to go talk to the family and tell them the same thing I think. That although he is not more, left us all a recipe for how to be happy being full.
This reflection takes some weeks inside me that although I felt very bad about the physical absence, I felt rewarded for always seen as something bad, he could then leave such a good thing to help me much. I was overcoming the greatest obstacle to live life, which is the famous fear of death. It is for something to happen but when I pressed the button publish or before s and that most of my life fully lived and the people who know me know that too. Being happy and communicating happiness to others.
Now explain more specifically what I consider for completeness, I say that does not mean running to jump in parachute, or know the 7 wonders of the world. The fullness we can be quietly lying in our beds while sleeping or watching a video on youtube! If I sleep with full awareness that I really want to sleep and I will enjoy the pleasure of rest (many are lucky to have her hand to the person who said that they loved more than anything in the world and others all his bed to enjoy!) I assure you I feel much more full and happy, thinking that I lie, I'm going to sleep very little, I'll be tired the next day that I have 500,000 trouble. A person who live fully, has an answer for everything. If you think you go to sleep little longer and enjoy it acostate. If you enjoy your night and you know that you will feel full of all the things you do during the day (like going to work, the great bogeyman of all) I promise you will not to be tired, and if you follow so tired and all, I assure you the next time you sleep, you sleep more fully! If you think that the other day when you go to work, you'll have much trouble, I tell you that up to another day when you have to lift and you come across this problem, you can not do anything! In the case that if something can be done for, find the solution, such as putting together a strategy and then goes to sleep the full.
After death, I think one of the great Cuckoos life of most people (which is on the list of many of the criticisms at the time) is work. Because the work has to be almost number one on this list? (las cuales quizas antes desperdiciabamos y ahora ya aprendimos a aprovecharlas), despues entre comidas tenemos 3 hs mas, viaje promedio calculemos 2hs mas por dia y le sumamos las famosas 8hs de trabajo, nos da un total de 21hs . If 24 hours, sleep 8 (which perhaps before desperdiciabamos and now learned to take advantage), then we have 3 hours between meals more, travel more averaged 2 hrs per day and we add 8am famous work, gives us a total of 21hs. So far we would be 3 hours of freedom to do "whatever we want" and "be happy". Then we are smart, we view ( 
), We can not spend every day 8am to what we think is the worst of the earth. And so I have to expect to work in google, or be a rock star because it is not the solution for anyone. Actually I've heard people with dream jobs for all, with a lot of money, not be happy doing what he does. If you are fully doing what they do, I promise that may be hammering a nail can bring happiness to win a grand slam. The great help to feel fulfilled doing anything is knowing that we maybe for a goal or something that gives us meaning. If I work 14 hours per day, for my daughter to be happy, but it turns out that my daughter is happy being with me makes no sense, this kind of thing is going to frustrate us. So if our true and absolute goal is to be with our daughter (I have children, obviously is an example) get a job from home where we can share with her. If our goal other than to see our family, is divided into other things, that our work makes sense to each of the things for which we do. Even a boy of 3 years, if we asked him know that makes no sense buy a Ferrari if your job because you hold a heart attack or not?
My recommendation is to seek happiness, but that is a major goal as if the long term. Instead every day looking for the tool or process to get there, which is fully reflected in everything we do.
Try to do this together, to help others. The easiest way to get a goal, hand in hand with the goalkeeper, is giving it to the next!. By helping the success of the next, we all win!
Well, I leave you, from now on fully enjoying every moment 100%. If they think makes sense and for many more it can be a "solution", I ask you to convey this idea, my idea is to help as many potential nipples and this I think we would do well at all.
In turn, I hope your ideas, rebuttals, his thoughts, to help each other, to enjoy more each time.
Thanks
Yes, the post looks almost like a book, but hey let's say you just need the formality of paper and note that they have read the essence of what I think not so many words that adorn and justify the use of leaves 
You left me thinking .... Embrace
Joaquin, as you express it is very important work at the same time not everyone has the possibility to work on what you like, or some take just to satisfy the financial needs and end 8 hours and "start the day" and everyone can agree or disagree with this. There are others like you and me included, we have to work "at home" if the term can be applied and this is reflected not only in the quality of work but in relationships in this area but also the other as the work influences the 2 other times of day as well as categorize you. Also I think what you want to make is that this is very good to live in fullness thinking about death (as Juan Carlos showed us in the last seminar) and not to remain "pending." When this happens (we have no pending) think we are in full and this does not mean that we have no goals to achieve in the rest of our lives, but to be "full" in the way we travel. Moreover, and here where I helped more about John Carlos, everyone has their standard of happiness, their goals, their concerns, what he thinks of his work, family, money and material things, the priorities in the life, etc. and what it means to be full if it began to think. Make a balance of all this can be easy or hard depending on each point of view they have and the only echo of knowledge gives us the kick off to give meaning to life and we must be partakers of this primary, we must take the post and operate according to these principles in order to say at the end "I did this in life," where I am proud, grateful and happy internally and with others having lived and not "life did this to me" where I could not do what wanted and there is no turning back for earrings.
On the issue of helping others is also a decision of each and we must respect when others are not interested in this and so are selfish, depend on the values of each of the principles and concerns they have.
Embrace,
Adrian
Excellent post! Surely woke several comments.
It is increasingly evident that we have to enjoy life, not eternal. I could not believe that neither I nor anyone, enjoy life exactly. But I have to do something with it, to influence, not each of us alone, but on the other.
I disagree with that of "long-term happiness." Does not exist. There are moments of happiness, not happiness. Not quite as strict, then so would put it: happiness is not a goal, even in the long term. It's custard cream may or may not come with the meal. If there is happiness, the better. But the important thing was the food of life, not dessert.
Just peace of mind to live life the way we decide, and doing something that transcends what one is enough. If my life was over looking back, and satisfied with what I did, would be the same or may not achieve happiness.
Let me quote myself:
http://ajlopez.zoomblog.com/archivo/2008/10/26/pasando-el-test-Me-piso-el-60.html
http://ajlopez.zoomblog.com/archivo/2007/07/23/oye-Mike-cual-es-el-sentido-de-la-vida.html
http://ajlopez.zoomblog.com/archivo/2007/09/16/el-gran-emprendimiento.html
We read!
Joaquin, the issue goes a long way. I think the most important is understanding that is often one that defines the color you see things. We all have an attitude toward life and all we can do things to move from the places where we do not like to be. Not saying it's easy but certainly worth it.
This post reminded me of the famous Steve Jobs speech at Stanford University ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ykUyVFkizfQ ) and an account of Alex Rovira whom I had the "good luck" to listen in a congress
I think good luck depends on ourselves more than we imagine, like living a full life.
Embrace!
@ Rolled is a pleasure to leave you thinking after you step Tell her head (perhaps in your blog why not)
@ Adri just what we say it is not necessary to work what you like (note the part where I say it is not necessary to be a rock star or work in google, you can be hammering a nail that is all good
) 
As for death, the truth is a race that stops running. I have goals that motivate processes before happiness was in the goals, we now find fulfillment and happiness in the process! (Thanks for asking, enables me to better express the whole post in one row)
As for selfishness, selfish re admit wanting to help everyone else on a whim of mine
@ Angel I read your post several times, the truth at that point I did not express the best, when talking long term, it was not for the fact on whether to seek happiness in the future, but you do not have as an objective of the day to day, but if this above certain things we do. I insist that it is better to feel full all the time, more than happy, so you mention, can not be smiles all the time, bad things happen in life and we must also take full advantage of (to cite one example fijate the beginning of post)
@ Diego completely and add some color to time things, not that we are lying, but being realistic and views on things happening, which really are not that bad, but the movie is that we do.
I do not write for comment, but I'm glad to see the interpretations of the written, let me clarify a little better idea.
Joaquin,
Death brings us a huge advantage, because it alone knows when. Meanwhile, (who already knows your secret), we have to act with full until that time comes and surely will come.
Suffers when the worm begins to transform into a butterfly and the butterfly can not remember when she was a worm.
Who will you choose be ... from this discovery made?
This is the true secret of which I speak.
PS: for me, I would have liked this post but short.
Big hug! Marce
Joaquin
Very good post and very positive. Undoubtedly, this look is a valuable contribution to the welfare of the people. Congratulations! JM
Very good grade of live fully. I identified. Recently passed a very near and dear uncle was like a father to me. Raiser of it created my blog (30mariposas) where sometimes when I have wanted write. It's therapeutic, like music.
A greeting.
Jimena.