Trelleira Joaquin's Blog

Significant time ago I wrote this post on the blog of James Bilinkis (I recommend entering). Step truth long enough and I lost a little pace to write, for many reasons. A good way to pick up and have some continuity is starting over with something that I wrote:)

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Like James, I like a lot of the debate (though in my blog not discuss anyone). The most competitive people, or always want to win, you end up taking almost a sport to discuss or debate. Also not sure why, wherever it appears the opposite gender (women, I present, my name is Joaquin and I still operate ), and sometimes I lose when I'm winning end up throwing the ball out (half CONSCIOUS) to sleep around my house even.

So I'll give you the key to win always, but always in an argument, look that never fails, eh.

In discussing, when you are not strongly agree on a topic, we often act proposing our point of view that is supported in a lot of things (or arguments) that we are right or we are right. These arguments generally agree with what we think in general, and we are absolutely convinced that under the line things will turn out for good.

Here comes the part where we always lose, we are so convinced of our arguments, we never see as possible, as real, the alternative of our opponent. The key to ever win an argument is really thinking (to be honest at this point) that the other says is right, no matter what I say, our head has to be right and from there, see the world as possible with this new reality. This "exercise" we will really see the possibilities offered by this new world, let us see the arguments in our archrival action and whether or if we are to learn anything, because everything he knew before that conversation, I already knew je If I close on my past knowledge systematically in every conversation, learn something difficult.

This famous line of learning something new every day, and the truth is that it is difficult in routine open up possibilities to investigate known or felt about a subject. But an inevitable part of routine discussions sometimes, and see that they have good opportunities to learn everyday!

Seriously, this helps us to know much more the reality of our peers (here comes the bomb) and has helped me to understand women! (Well not quite, but now I understand a lot). So go to the mail, please click on forward and create a beautiful chain of mails to send to all your contacts, you say on the topic "How to understand women," so we can help more than one, haha. Lie, if you really do is ask them to help me with your views on this issue, as only cast the first stone, I want to see all possible realities on the subject.

Photo: Carterton

This is something I learned some time ago and stayed in a talk that inadvertently listed as "not to be singing the tango". Everyday, meet someone, regardless if it's too little or not you see, and to make the famous question How is it going?, The common response is automatic and "all good" but we know that in a matter of seconds, some of the two will recite the bad day you had, so it takes the collective, or the amount of people that were in the subway at rush hour, passed as a survivor of a problem, when we are talking about something quite normal and everyday.

Why we do it? complain because it became a habit and you compete to have more bad luck. One of the places where it is reflected in the web 2.0, as we this "listening" all the time, seeing as we are now, giving us instead to constantly review and accidentally with all that information is created profile as is a person, seeing that it transmits.

The most serious, is not an argument that it is normal to tilde problem, but the bad image that conveys such a person. We are not aware, but one day the bus did not stop, another day and ask us broke Tv , so on until the person in front of us think "This is a problematic" or "This is living with Quilombo" or "Wow, better still long, because it always brings bad wave tragedy and others." As entrepreneurs and ordinary people, not the image we want to give anything a bad story that would accidentally buy my friend William, and we think that really goes wrong and we have the right to complain to whoever we meet, or at the place where you can leave an expression of my state.

So reader / friend of mine, as you are're not to be singing the tango, it must be given to later in life, if something bad happened to you, think of the responsibility that you got on it and how to improve it. Unfortunately as we embedded this habit, is an exercise that we do to stop this, but has not condufir to say all the time "I'm great" "that great day" because it would pass for fools to pass first and then some credible, which we do not want to happen.

If you believe that somehow YOU CAN enrich this debate please please do it!, I think everyone can do, so are invited to bring their own.