Trelleira Joaquin's Blog

On the Web before we know, only creating content, two types of people, who knew programming a website or those who had enough money to pay someone to do them. So to find some information that will help us in search engines, we had to be lucky that someone knows about this issue and also have an idea how to make a website. Little by little, people who knew about many things, but I had no idea how to share, was having more tools to do so. With this style of tools, he was the leap of knowledge, communication and community.
Knowledge and communication (although this is very present in the post), if you want the chat the other day, so if I care about are the negative implications of the effects of community generated.
I've seen several times in the focus of the discussion, whether in social networks of contacts puts them as friends, followers, contacts or other name. That then begs the question of whether those listed are really friends or not. I think that put the name to put each one in your imagination knows where the relationship and gives up no where. At best, a social network enhances the creation of friends, let us see some common interests, which we will facilitate the identification with many more people, new groups created randomly.
Anyway, the point is that the social web allows me to open talks A LOT, meet people, but not everything is rosy. As someone as a friend adds, are also those we do not add us to erase or block us! Then we have the distance that a person, feeling rejected or did not appreciate us makes us very badly!
I will say this is highly debatable, but I think the richer a man feel, is the social wealth. The silver without social connotations no sense. Winning a football game is not valuable for absolutely anyone, no sense. Everything all at one time has a social purpose. Because we are social beings, but we would rock!
The web as a medium, has multiplied about 1000 times the communication possibilities to what was by traditional means. So to be connected with many people but, the chances of being "rejected" grows too, creating a social poverty in the user very hard (obviously depends on the value generated by the contact us). And while it's really nice to have so many friends, talk about many things, we must handle with extreme caution the negative effects.
I think being ignored, being a social being, you feel less than human, as your basic function generator of meaning is not being fulfilled. So we must be very careful with the image that show and we ended up generating. Any mail, twitter or word that is not answered, it has a much greater negative implications than previously thought. In the blogs is kind of weird, because there is still a practical tool that allows us to see if we respoden or not, we look to reenter or susbcribirnos by mail, which is a bit tedious.
I have not really a recommendation to minimize or cancel this effect generated, but it seems more important to keep this in mind. I think to a denial or rejection, we must admit we were not necessarily interesting in the interests of that person, and therefore we must offer something to make you more particular sense, or else pass it to who, if indicated. In turn I think you should answer as many emails as possible, and if we try to understand answer still not ready physically to answer everything that you send us, maybe in the future if, not a bad idea to start working in that
Well I want to hear your opinion, according to the situations experienced by everyone, they will be able to bring together a lot and maybe we can think of this topic.
Thank you very much.

Well I come to bring what for me was a kind of "solution". It was something that flourished internally, after a very tragic moment that helped me find some that I think we all (or at least I look).

It was a very ugly accident dies for the father of my best childhood friend and godfather to my brother, Gerald. I was touching 50, had besides a son of my old (Leo), a smaller daughter of 16 (Cynthia) and a little rambunctious 2 year (Uriel). My dad wakes me with the news and the truth is he did not understand anything, I went to that house where I spent most of my childhood, not knowing what to say, I had no words. When it was full of people and was surrounded by all my childhood memories. Then I realized that while it was very ugly what had happened, Gerardo can not be criticized anything, because he lived a great life, as lived in full time. I always felt good doing the things he did, such as your home, which reformed at least 500 times, with joy, each brick. When we were going on vacation does not stop a second, always happy, always cheerful, everything he did he liked!

After these thoughts, take the courage to go talk to the family and tell them the same thing I think. That although he is not more, left us all a recipe for how to be happy being full.

This reflection takes some weeks inside me that although I felt very bad about the physical absence, I felt rewarded for always seen as something bad, he could then leave such a good thing to help me much. I was overcoming the greatest obstacle to live life, which is the famous fear of death. It is for something to happen but when I pressed the button publish or before s and that most of my life fully lived and the people who know me know that too. Being happy and communicating happiness to others.

Now explain more specifically what I consider for completeness, I say that does not mean running to jump in parachute, or know the 7 wonders of the world. The fullness we can be quietly lying in our beds while sleeping or watching a video on youtube! If I sleep with full awareness that I really want to sleep and I will enjoy the pleasure of rest (many are lucky to have her hand to the person who said that they loved more than anything in the world and others all his bed to enjoy!) I assure you I feel much more full and happy, thinking that I lie, I'm going to sleep very little, I'll be tired the next day that I have 500,000 trouble. A person who live fully, has an answer for everything. If you think you go to sleep little longer and enjoy it acostate. If you enjoy your night and you know that you will feel full of all the things you do during the day (like going to work, the great bogeyman of all) I promise you will not to be tired, and if you follow so tired and all, I assure you the next time you sleep, you sleep more fully! If you think that the other day when you go to work, you'll have much trouble, I tell you that up to another day when you have to lift and you come across this problem, you can not do anything! In the case that if something can be done for, find the solution, such as putting together a strategy and then goes to sleep the full.

After death, I think one of the great Cuckoos life of most people (which is on the list of many of the criticisms at the time) is work. Because the work has to be almost number one on this list? (las cuales quizas antes desperdiciabamos y ahora ya aprendimos a aprovecharlas), despues entre comidas tenemos 3 hs mas, viaje promedio calculemos 2hs mas por dia y le sumamos las famosas 8hs de trabajo, nos da un total de 21hs . If 24 hours, sleep 8 (which perhaps before desperdiciabamos and now learned to take advantage), then we have 3 hours between meals more, travel more averaged 2 hrs per day and we add 8am famous work, gives us a total of 21hs. So far we would be 3 hours of freedom to do "whatever we want" and "be happy". Then we are smart, we view ( ), We can not spend every day 8am to what we think is the worst of the earth. And so I have to expect to work in google, or be a rock star because it is not the solution for anyone. Actually I've heard people with dream jobs for all, with a lot of money, not be happy doing what he does. If you are fully doing what they do, I promise that may be hammering a nail can bring happiness to win a grand slam. The great help to feel fulfilled doing anything is knowing that we maybe for a goal or something that gives us meaning. If I work 14 hours per day, for my daughter to be happy, but it turns out that my daughter is happy being with me makes no sense, this kind of thing is going to frustrate us. So if our true and absolute goal is to be with our daughter (I have children, obviously is an example) get a job from home where we can share with her. If our goal other than to see our family, is divided into other things, that our work makes sense to each of the things for which we do. Even a boy of 3 years, if we asked him know that makes no sense buy a Ferrari if your job because you hold a heart attack or not?

My recommendation is to seek happiness, but that is a major goal as if the long term. Instead every day looking for the tool or process to get there, which is fully reflected in everything we do.

Try to do this together, to help others. The easiest way to get a goal, hand in hand with the goalkeeper, is giving it to the next!. By helping the success of the next, we all win!

Well, I leave you, from now on fully enjoying every moment 100%. If they think makes sense and for many more it can be a "solution", I ask you to convey this idea, my idea is to help as many potential nipples and this I think we would do well at all.

In turn, I hope your ideas, rebuttals, his thoughts, to help each other, to enjoy more each time.

Thanks

Yes, the post looks almost like a book, but hey let's say you just need the formality of paper and note that they have read the essence of what I think not so many words that adorn and justify the use of leaves