Trelleira Joaquin's Blog

Significant time ago I wrote this post on the blog of James Bilinkis (I recommend entering). Step truth long enough and I lost a little pace to write, for many reasons. A good way to pick up and have some continuity is starting over with something that I wrote:)

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Like James, I like a lot of the debate (though in my blog not discuss anyone). The most competitive people, or always want to win, you end up taking almost a sport to discuss or debate. Also not sure why, wherever it appears the opposite gender (women, I present, my name is Joaquin and I still operate ), and sometimes I lose when I'm winning end up throwing the ball out (half CONSCIOUS) to sleep around my house even.

So I'll give you the key to win always, but always in an argument, look that never fails, eh.

In discussing, when you are not strongly agree on a topic, we often act proposing our point of view that is supported in a lot of things (or arguments) that we are right or we are right. These arguments generally agree with what we think in general, and we are absolutely convinced that under the line things will turn out for good.

Here comes the part where we always lose, we are so convinced of our arguments, we never see as possible, as real, the alternative of our opponent. The key to ever win an argument is really thinking (to be honest at this point) that the other says is right, no matter what I say, our head has to be right and from there, see the world as possible with this new reality. This "exercise" we will really see the possibilities offered by this new world, let us see the arguments in our archrival action and whether or if we are to learn anything, because everything he knew before that conversation, I already knew je If I close on my past knowledge systematically in every conversation, learn something difficult.

This famous line of learning something new every day, and the truth is that it is difficult in routine open up possibilities to investigate known or felt about a subject. But an inevitable part of routine discussions sometimes, and see that they have good opportunities to learn everyday!

Seriously, this helps us to know much more the reality of our peers (here comes the bomb) and has helped me to understand women! (Well not quite, but now I understand a lot). So go to the mail, please click on forward and create a beautiful chain of mails to send to all your contacts, you say on the topic "How to understand women," so we can help more than one, haha. Lie, if you really do is ask them to help me with your views on this issue, as only cast the first stone, I want to see all possible realities on the subject.

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Well I come to bring what for me was a kind of "solution". It was something that flourished internally, after a very tragic moment that helped me find some that I think we all (or at least I look).

It was a very ugly accident dies for the father of my best childhood friend and godfather to my brother, Gerald. I was touching 50, had besides a son of my old (Leo), a smaller daughter of 16 (Cynthia) and a little rambunctious 2 year (Uriel). My dad wakes me with the news and the truth is he did not understand anything, I went to that house where I spent most of my childhood, not knowing what to say, I had no words. When it was full of people and was surrounded by all my childhood memories. Then I realized that while it was very ugly what had happened, Gerardo can not be criticized anything, because he lived a great life, as lived in full time. I always felt good doing the things he did, such as your home, which reformed at least 500 times, with joy, each brick. When we were going on vacation does not stop a second, always happy, always cheerful, everything he did he liked!

After these thoughts, take the courage to go talk to the family and tell them the same thing I think. That although he is not more, left us all a recipe for how to be happy being full.

This reflection takes some weeks inside me that although I felt very bad about the physical absence, I felt rewarded for always seen as something bad, he could then leave such a good thing to help me much. I was overcoming the greatest obstacle to live life, which is the famous fear of death. It is for something to happen but when I pressed the button publish or before s and that most of my life fully lived and the people who know me know that too. Being happy and communicating happiness to others.

Now explain more specifically what I consider for completeness, I say that does not mean running to jump in parachute, or know the 7 wonders of the world. The fullness we can be quietly lying in our beds while sleeping or watching a video on youtube! If I sleep with full awareness that I really want to sleep and I will enjoy the pleasure of rest (many are lucky to have her hand to the person who said that they loved more than anything in the world and others all his bed to enjoy!) I assure you I feel much more full and happy, thinking that I lie, I'm going to sleep very little, I'll be tired the next day that I have 500,000 trouble. A person who live fully, has an answer for everything. If you think you go to sleep little longer and enjoy it acostate. If you enjoy your night and you know that you will feel full of all the things you do during the day (like going to work, the great bogeyman of all) I promise you will not to be tired, and if you follow so tired and all, I assure you the next time you sleep, you sleep more fully! If you think that the other day when you go to work, you'll have much trouble, I tell you that up to another day when you have to lift and you come across this problem, you can not do anything! In the case that if something can be done for, find the solution, such as putting together a strategy and then goes to sleep the full.

After death, I think one of the great Cuckoos life of most people (which is on the list of many of the criticisms at the time) is work. Because the work has to be almost number one on this list? (las cuales quizas antes desperdiciabamos y ahora ya aprendimos a aprovecharlas), despues entre comidas tenemos 3 hs mas, viaje promedio calculemos 2hs mas por dia y le sumamos las famosas 8hs de trabajo, nos da un total de 21hs . If 24 hours, sleep 8 (which perhaps before desperdiciabamos and now learned to take advantage), then we have 3 hours between meals more, travel more averaged 2 hrs per day and we add 8am famous work, gives us a total of 21hs. So far we would be 3 hours of freedom to do "whatever we want" and "be happy". Then we are smart, we view ( ), We can not spend every day 8am to what we think is the worst of the earth. And so I have to expect to work in google, or be a rock star because it is not the solution for anyone. Actually I've heard people with dream jobs for all, with a lot of money, not be happy doing what he does. If you are fully doing what they do, I promise that may be hammering a nail can bring happiness to win a grand slam. The great help to feel fulfilled doing anything is knowing that we maybe for a goal or something that gives us meaning. If I work 14 hours per day, for my daughter to be happy, but it turns out that my daughter is happy being with me makes no sense, this kind of thing is going to frustrate us. So if our true and absolute goal is to be with our daughter (I have children, obviously is an example) get a job from home where we can share with her. If our goal other than to see our family, is divided into other things, that our work makes sense to each of the things for which we do. Even a boy of 3 years, if we asked him know that makes no sense buy a Ferrari if your job because you hold a heart attack or not?

My recommendation is to seek happiness, but that is a major goal as if the long term. Instead every day looking for the tool or process to get there, which is fully reflected in everything we do.

Try to do this together, to help others. The easiest way to get a goal, hand in hand with the goalkeeper, is giving it to the next!. By helping the success of the next, we all win!

Well, I leave you, from now on fully enjoying every moment 100%. If they think makes sense and for many more it can be a "solution", I ask you to convey this idea, my idea is to help as many potential nipples and this I think we would do well at all.

In turn, I hope your ideas, rebuttals, his thoughts, to help each other, to enjoy more each time.

Thanks

Yes, the post looks almost like a book, but hey let's say you just need the formality of paper and note that they have read the essence of what I think not so many words that adorn and justify the use of leaves