Trelleira Joaquin's Blog

Significant time ago I wrote this post on the blog of James Bilinkis (I recommend entering). Step truth long enough and I lost a little pace to write, for many reasons. A good way to pick up and have some continuity is starting over with something that I wrote:)

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Like James, I like a lot of the debate (though in my blog not discuss anyone). The most competitive people, or always want to win, you end up taking almost a sport to discuss or debate. Also not sure why, wherever it appears the opposite gender (women, I present, my name is Joaquin and I still operate ), and sometimes I lose when I'm winning end up throwing the ball out (half CONSCIOUS) to sleep around my house even.

So I'll give you the key to win always, but always in an argument, look that never fails, eh.

In discussing, when you are not strongly agree on a topic, we often act proposing our point of view that is supported in a lot of things (or arguments) that we are right or we are right. These arguments generally agree with what we think in general, and we are absolutely convinced that under the line things will turn out for good.

Here comes the part where we always lose, we are so convinced of our arguments, we never see as possible, as real, the alternative of our opponent. The key to ever win an argument is really thinking (to be honest at this point) that the other says is right, no matter what I say, our head has to be right and from there, see the world as possible with this new reality. This "exercise" we will really see the possibilities offered by this new world, let us see the arguments in our archrival action and whether or if we are to learn anything, because everything he knew before that conversation, I already knew je If I close on my past knowledge systematically in every conversation, learn something difficult.

This famous line of learning something new every day, and the truth is that it is difficult in routine open up possibilities to investigate known or felt about a subject. But an inevitable part of routine discussions sometimes, and see that they have good opportunities to learn everyday!

Seriously, this helps us to know much more the reality of our peers (here comes the bomb) and has helped me to understand women! (Well not quite, but now I understand a lot). So go to the mail, please click on forward and create a beautiful chain of mails to send to all your contacts, you say on the topic "How to understand women," so we can help more than one, haha. Lie, if you really do is ask them to help me with your views on this issue, as only cast the first stone, I want to see all possible realities on the subject.

Photo: Carterton

In a very good blog about personal productivity called the basket , I found the following post which talks about "the zone ". The same concerns when we get to be in those moments where conseguis absolute concentration on what you're doing, with the consequence of losing track of time completely.

In the post to give some tips on things to do to stay long in the area. Like being on a subject I know, but where there is always something to learn, you must also be challenging, we should encourage us to do and have a fast reaction (The times I remember being in the area when I was in charge of making the windows of technology, Pasban hours and hours, lost sales, but I was excited very much and kept me with full attention to what he was doing, the quick response I had was every two minutes to see if it was running or not)

As entrepreneurs (not necessarily people who have your business, but people with attitudes to change things), but it is important to leave the comfort zone , the most important thing that our entrepreneurial activity in the area. When we talk about the passion we must do things, focus, energy and other attributes, we refer to many of the things we found in this area.

Another important fact to know that you can, think that there is the possibility of achieving my goal more difficult it may seem. The way to accomplish something impossible or not known, first thinking it is possible and there, after checking which way to take us to our destination and so work in our step by step, fully focused.

Something very important is to get away from bad areas, like the criticism. It is a normal attitude, which inadvertently fall by the people around us. Where no real reason everything is wrong, everyone is complaining and complaining transmits culture. Ex: There's this underground that is filled! If it is a crap, they have to fix it! Because he's always bad! It travels like cows! Where perhaps it is 6 pm and a subway is coming less than 3 minutes each, for 90 cents! Another example is in the more traditional works: This work is a m ...., Underpaid, are a lot of hours, they ask you anything, in such other place x charge more. But no one says how to improve things, or do something to improve it, only complain as martyrs, on top of you where you work x who charges more, but installed another critical area where charge more but have more problems and head does not value what they do ( you told pumpkin? ). L or important is to make an important and significant act to cut it, but if you do not succeed ANDAT!, Because most do not want it going to affect you.

In closing I want to take this phrase from Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi "What's interesting is that people who were doing something active and concentrated felt happier than people who watch TV without thinking."